Yelling
Sometimes Yelling Doesn't Get You Anywhere
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There is the time when yelling can be very constitutional in a conversion when it turns to the ugly. I derives us from two points perspective,
one that has an agitated but very persuasive argument
one that defends and tells them another point
both factual; but very subtle. Depending on the argument, but some can take its toll, for the worst. Some take things seriously for no apparent reason and little to no outcomes to what the argument is.
Take for example my friend, what she does is something original to herself. Spots bullies and tries to defend herself. This person tries to stand up and takes her rights up towards the leaders. They can't do anything, so they psychology arrived at a point where she can no longer handle and tenses. It's a flight or fight situation but she decided to fight and it's a disease that never cures.
If I was in this situation, i would've ran.
That takes bravery and determination to stand up but I still don't think it'll end the situation.
What we should do is have many people on sides and talk, have resolutions. Have that determination to talk it out and see if we can accommodate anyone. We can't change ourselves but we can be more advocate. We are all adults, we were all kids and all human. There will be people who want to just have a negative outlook and always try to put down.
I just wanted to put it out there, we need to stop drama on its tracks and learn that drama isn't life and life isn't drama. It's a life that only happens once.
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