Do Right or Do Nice?

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This is very recent but I wanted to talk about you about right vs. nice. This scenario takes place at an MCD's at a mall. With a line that everyone wants food, we see a lady with a baby. I stood in line and in front of me is a security guy. Then this lady says the right thing by saying that I was budding in line in front of her. But, she is it in a up most rude and permissive. But, I said sorry and moved on. When I look closely at the situation, I then find out that was rude but I just want to move on. 

 Now, I just want to know now,

 when you are approached with the antagonist
should you be polite and be nice
should you be polite
or should you be nice

 Its something so worthy of someone's respect 
and the possible outcome could heal or hurt. 

 The comes the other person's emotions,

 Does this person's actions make me feel respected?
or
Does this person's make me feel pity of self worth? 

 I'm thinking hard.... 

 Now, I wanna ask you. Should you be nice but rude
Should you be rude but nice
or should you just un-deal with it.
Coffeeshop that says 'hi'.

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